Just Plan the Party

Sometimes in the middle of our daily routine, the thought of planning an event—big or small—can feel more stressful than exciting. It is so easy to ask yourself: Why bother? Maybe it feels too expensive, or maybe you worry only five people will show up, so why put in the effort? I’ve definitely been guilty of thinking this way.

Is it really worth it? The answer I always come back to is a resounding yes.

Life is short, and these are the moments and memories we get to look back on. I always cringe a little when people skip celebrating their birthday just because it isn’t a "milestone" number. Every year counts! I’ve always been someone who loves celebrating birthdays—even if it’s not a massive party, I always make sure to do something special.

To be completely honest, keeping that mindset hasn't always been easy. When my dad passed away a couple of years ago, I really struggled. My first birthday without him was the hardest; I spent pretty much the entire day in tears. But slowly, I’m trying to get back into the swing of things, because when I look back, the memories of gathering with loved ones are what bring me joy.

I think about my 30th birthday, where I hired a room at Pier One in Sydney and had drinks with a few close friends—it was wonderful. Or last year, when two of my friends and their partners came over, and the six of us made gingerbread houses together. It was so much fun, surprisingly challenging, full of laughs, and such a great way to see everyone’s creative side. I even went to a Taylor Swift listening party hosted by a Sydney book club last year, which turned out to be one of the best ways to celebrate and just enjoy the moment.

It doesn't take a massive budget or a 100-person guest list to create something meaningful. Whether it’s drinks by the harbour, a cozy craft night at home, or joining a local community event, taking the time to celebrate life's moments is always worth the effort.